Some women blame everything on the man. NEWSFLASH not everything is always his fault. It takes two in any given relationship. Stop trying to change a man. Stop trying to control a man. Stop trying to PLAY a man. When the imperfect man that is perfect for God’s purpose comes into your life he will be a blessing. He will not get in God’s way.
Carrying around this bitterness and hatred for your brothas is not ATTRACTIVE. I never heard my mother ever bad –mouth my father in front of me. If you are a single-mom, you have God’s strength to rear that child. Realize you consciously made a choice to have unprotected sex with him. It takes two to make a baby…
Stop putting standards on education, income, and status…Start putting FAITH in GOD to send you a representation of HIM. However, if you choose to put standards up make sure you can hold your own as well.
Stop depending on a man to make you happy whether you married or single. Only God can give you true happiness. Happiness has to start with you. Otherwise, you will be one miserable old ___!
No comments:
Post a Comment