Homosexuality Bashing and Christianity

I was raised in a Methodist church, not your typical Baptist or Pentecostal environment. It was not until later adult life I came to have an greater understanding of the WORD versus Christian domination's or politics in doctrine. Currently, homosexuality is viewed as the ONLY sin for IGNORANT people. Well, here is what I was taught. The bible says...We ALL have sinned and fell short the GRACE of GOD. It also states that EVERYONE will stand before GOD, and HE is the only JUDGE!

I personally do not feel just because you are heterosexual you should cast judgement on someone who is not. The bible says that God will judge according to the intentions of the HEART. So, this means to me that whatever GOD sees in your heart that is displease to him, you will be judge accordingly for it.

I personally do not have time to hate, cast judgement on anyone for whatever they do in their life right or wrong. All I can do is stay in my own lane and live the life I know that is acceptable to GOD. 

I consider myself to be an extremely affectionate woman. I love to kiss, hug, hold, snuggle you name it. I love closeness..I have been that since I was a child...I was very close to my grandmother, mother and aunts..So, women and affection has always been on an affectionate level for me..So, it is nothing for me to kiss a woman like I would my grandmother..I lay in the bed with my husband to this day, the same way I did with my grandmother and just talk..It is to me a special level of intimacy..

So, for women that have deeper affectionate levels for women that is expressed on sexual levels is known to some as lesbianism or in some cases bisexual, if the female prefer men and women. I feel that is it noone's business what someone does sexually to another person behind close doors. That is something intimate and private. I want to be respected for the person I love and I feel same-sex couples should be given the same respect.

It annoys that some people claiming to be believers in Jesus that it is their obligation to throw stones, discriminate, or harass someone that is gay. In fact, I do not consider people like that to be Christians. In fact, I personally believe that homophobia is coming from one's own personal fears of their own sexuality. I believe when you are comfortable with your sexuality as a heterosexual or homosexual. You are free in conscious to express, receive, and share the highest level of intimacy with your partner and not feel any guilt, shame, or embarrassment about it.

Another thing that should be considered in homosexuality is that not all individuals are given a choice. There are some cases in which some people's sexuality may have been violated through molestation, rape, or pedophilia. There are also some cases were people are struggling with their sexuality and not wanting to be homosexual. Then there are other cases were people are comfortable and proud to be gay. In all situations, people should be respect for their choices.

I am not here advocating gay rights or heterosexual rights...But to respect the rights of human beings and their personal choices..