Preachers of LA

After watching season 1 and watching the preshows before season 2. I must say I truly enjoy watching this show more than TBN, DAYSTAR, or INSP any day of the week... I know viewers would disagree with this show. But I see nothing wrong with showing that preachers are no different than anyone else.

I believe part of the problem is putting ministers up on pedestals like they are GODS. That is no different than worshiping a celebrity.

Hoiler than thou Syndrome

It's one thing that annoys me more than anything is CHURCH folk! Yes, this is not a vent but a concern and apparently it's been a concern of Jesus for quite some time now..Again, I will not give you scriptures or preach that is not the purpose of this blog.

In the bible I read, Jesus made it apparent that he came to seek and save the lost. Not the "know it alls"..I am sure there is someone you know in your community, family, school, or church that is HOLIER than THOU..

What does it mean to be holier than thou:

 1) Everyone is going to HELL except you

 2) You have a special HEAVEN set aside for you, by God

 3) You have never sinned a day in your life

 4) You pass judgement on anyone that does not: go to church, not married, single parent, gay, poor, etc...

 5) You are secretly a pathetic human suffering from jealously, envy, spite, and misery

If you suffer from this.....Here are some helpful tips

1) Become of believer in LOVE~ (GOD is LOVE)

2) Develop your own personal walk with GOD

3) Strive on his Grace and Mercies to be the person he created you to be..

Women Preachers

I believe women have a place in ministry but I do not believe it is to rule an entire church..Again, I will not sit here and quote bible scriptures and not assume all readers will agree with this blog. All I ask is to respect my personal point of view.

I was raised in a male-dominated family were the male figures were strong leaders. This is not to suggest that women were not strong role models. My mother is one of the most influential people in my life. Being a woman myself, obliviously I support women's rights, leadership positions, and empowerment. In fact, I would accept a female as President of the United States.

However, when it comes to a church there is a specific order I believe the bible states how the house of God should be ran. It clearly states in the NEW testament that women should minister over younger women and children. Also, a woman should not rule over a man. Now, I do not take that as some slave mentality or inferior status to a man. It is just the way I believe God design order in his house. I do not believes it gravitates to any form of discrimination or disrespect for women. I believe women were created for a unique purpose from God. Blessed to be a Woman!!

The love of money is the root of all EVIL...

Well, let me start by saying that I am not about to sit here and write a bunch of scriptures or preach by any means. This post is created from my personal viewpoint, I welcome all readers of any religion and respect differences of opinions..In other words, you do not have to agree with my views, but I do ask you respect it

From my personal experience NOT all, but most church organizations today require high maintenance from its congregates. What ever happen to the family unit of church and true Christian teaching? Why do some churches not speak on certain topics like divorce, adultery, homosexuality, murder, stealing, killing, etc...What happen to the basic knowledge of the word? Have many leaders in  the christian organizations conformed to catering to audiences that bring in the most prof$t?

What do I mean by high maintenance is exactly what it means. Constantly burdening down church members with limited income for a buck. Persistent car washes, bake sales, fish fries, and programs to raise money for building funds instead helping needy families. But most importantly, why does the preacher not have a job? Since when did it become scriptural or ethical for a minister to make financial profit off a church congregation.

My personal understanding of the bible is that Jesus died to save mankind from eternal damnation and through him by believing there is everlasting life. Lately, an altar call is done instantly after a collection offering or the healing line is based off how much "seed" ($$$) is sown... And..let's not forget the overall money-maker tithes and offering. Why is it that this means financial giving? Do churches not believe in other forms of tithes and offerings like food, shelter clothing, time, goods, etc..

But, most importantly teachings and preaching on the christian living life. I personally do not believe in judging, hating or discriminating against anyone that does not believe all things about the bible or God. However, that does not mean I will not offer or explain my beliefs when given the opportunity. So, why do churches shy away from topics of divorce, adultery, homosexuality, murder, stealing, killing, etc...I personally feel most money-making preachers are fearful of offending. So, here would be some helpful approaches on these topics...

1) If a person is in the church, a preacher's job is to speak the word in its entirety, no sugarcoating, no half truths.

2) If a person does not agree with the church teachings, they have a right to not attend the church.

3) No-one should be under any financial obligation to a church (members, visitors, etc)

4) Everyone should feel loved and welcomed in a church regardless of race, sexual orientation, or religion (Many forget that God is the only Judge)

5) If a church is able to help someone it should not require a membership, financial tithing history, or a status..Preachers should only use gifts of discernment to expose any deception. 

6) Allow God to run the ministry

Bottom line you either please God or man...Choice is yours!

Scandal TV Show~ Are black women blind to the truth?

There has been much talk about how the hit TV show Scandal has a tendency to stereotype and disrespect black women. Some feel the show is nothing more than a modern "slave" affair of another black woman with a white man. Others feel it degrades that black women are only good as sexual objects and not good enough to be "wifey" material. So, here's the truth for you...

First, Scandal is a fictional show that is NOT based on race but solely on a strong-career woman that fixes everyone's problems but has no clue how to control her personal life. She clearly has insecurities in relationships that is rooted from her parents that has caused unhealthy relationships in her adult life. She has chosen to be in adulterous relationship with a married man who happens to be president.

Secondly, the disrespect of some black women in society is rooted in poor choices in men in general. For example, a large percentage of black families do not have fathers in the homes. Many young black women are welfare recipients due no financial support from partners.

Thirdly,  some black women are delusional to thinking that white women are some type of superiority in having a faithful husband, career, kids and success.

Lastly, everything is matter of beliefs and self-esteem. Role-modeling begins in the home as with the Scandal series, Oliva's mom is a terrorist, what else more could you expect in moral judgments for her life.

Adultery

I have never understood why married people commit adultery. Seems to me the simple method would be to divorce. It is obvious if a person is not satisfied in their marriage and feels the need to see someone else. Why allow yourself or your spouse the misery. It is tiresome lying, sneaking or living a private life from your spouse.

Forms of Adultery: Emotional Affairs, Sexual Affairs, Cyber Affairs

Adultery is not always a sexual act. Adultery can be the denying your spouse the marital support that is given to someone else other than your spouse. Adultery can be the internal desire to be with someone else. So, the simple act of not physically committing adultery begins on emotional thoughts or desires first.

REASON: The reason why some spouses choose to stay in an unhappy marriage is due to one or two factors. Financial benefits or Guilt. Some may take guilt as some level of violation to their walk with God concerning the marriage vow. Others obviously married for other reasons than love, financial security. Either reason is no excuse to mislead the other person and block their ability to experience true love.

SOLUTION: Married couples should be able to have an open, no holds bar conversation about marital issues. These issue may range from finances, children, careers, sexual satisfaction, or in-laws to name a few. The key is to allow one another to express TRUE feelings and begin to process to resolve the challenges. This is called TEAM work. You never allow your partner to fail at being the best God has destined them to be. If you as a spouse do not feel this way about your spouse. Then maybe divorce is the best or only resolution to not become an obstacle in your spouses life.

The George Zimmerman vs Trayvon Martin

There has been much controversy about the night in question. Did George Zimmerman racially profile Trayvon Martin? Was it truly self-defense? Did Trayvon Martin attack George Zimmerman? The list goes on and on...The end results will never be happy...The only person that knows the truth is the Lord. He is all knowing and all seeing. May your prayers be with both families as they prepare for the trial that determines the life of both individuals.